Dear Lucy: Recently I went to my 40th high school class reunion. Can you imagine that? We are all rapidly approaching 60 and all I heard or saw were wheelchairs, talk of high blood pressure, diabetes, strokes, bald heads, disappointments over children and jobs and it just made me sick. I am not physically ill, but I swear I looked at least ten years older than everyone there. In the last few years, I seem to be aging so fast and just looking so old. Am I just being vain? Maybe I should just be glad that I am healthy.
The Rev. Fred Luter, pastor of New Orleans' Franklin Avenue Baptist Church, is settling in as the new president of the 16-million-member Southern Baptist Convention after his recent election during the group's annual meeting in New Orleans.
Luter, 55, is the first African American elected president of the group. He said the lesson of his election (June 19) is the importance of faith.
by Helen Silvis
NNPA News Service
After a gang killing, the victim's friends and associates often show up to the funeral decked out in gang attire. And the display can spark more violence, in the neighborhood or even at the funeral itself.
Now, a group of about 30 pastors from about 20 churches in Portland, Ore. want to make funerals gang-free zones, by banning the colors, clothing and music associated with gangs, during funerals. The pastors said they don't want to exclude anyone, but have been motivated by the ancient idea of Sanctuary.
Dear Lucy: I work for a woman who has no idea how to give a compliment! She looks for the slightest error in all of my work. I am constantly on pins and needles, waiting for her to criticize my work. My last boss was the same way. I know that I do good work and pretty soon I am going to go off on this woman and probably lose my job. Help!
Singer-songwriter Gabriel S. Hardeman, best-known for co-writing R&B star Stephanie Mills' 1987 No. 1 hit "I Feel Good All Over" and Teddy Pendergrass' "Truly Blessed," died Saturday (June 16th) in the Philadelphia area from complications of interstitial fibrosis. He was 68.
Hardeman was diagnosed with the illness in May 2000. With medication, he functioned well until 2005 when he started intermittently using a portable oxygen tank.
The head of a national African-American bankers organization is warning that growing foreclosures upon churches across America indicate that houses of worship must quickly change the way they do business or possibly face a national crisis.
"A trend in church foreclosures is causing national leaders representing African-American communities all over America to focus their attention on potential solutions to avert an impending crisis,"
Dear Lucy: My heart is just breaking. My daughter has been married for six years to a man that I begged her not to marry. He is just trifling, he's cheated on her, never held a steady job and now he's left her with four children, ages 1-6. I am also very angry. I am too old to raise kids but I know I will have to help her out. I wanted to retire this year and now I don't see how I can. I am a widow and raised my three children by myself. I just did not want this for her. Every time I talk to her, I just want to scream and ask her how she could be so stupid! Help.