07 Oct 2011
- Written by Lucy Shaw
Recently, I went on a serious diet and lost a lot of weight. Since I have been on this diet, I have also learned how to do things like read, watch calming or funny movies and just find all sorts of ways to fill my time doing something other than eating! All of this is good. But, I have also lost my friends that I used to hang out with. I had to stop going out to eat with them and they just gradually stopped talking to me. This really hurts but the doctor said I absolutely had to lose the weight or expect to have a stroke or something! But, losing my friends really hurts.
I am so happy and rejoice with you over your weight loss and your new lifestyle. I am also sad for the loss of your friends. One of my Facebook friends posted a quote the other day that said, “I told God to protect me from my enemies and I started losing friends.”
Now I am not calling your friends your enemies, but do you know that one of the top five reasons why people don’t attempt to lose weight is the fear of losing their friends or family? After all, if we are social and fill our time with occasions centered on eating, who are our friends? Other people who also love to eat.
Maybe all you really had in common with your friends was eating. Perhaps, now you will simply find friends who love great movies and great books. If you exercise or walk, you will find friends who do those things, too.
Your old eating buddies may never tell you, but you can bet that you are an inspiration to them!
You inspire me!
(Check out Lucy Shaw’s website at http://www.heartworks4u.com. Send your questions to her by U.S. mail to: Heartworks4U, LLC; 4646 Poplar Ave. Ste 201, Memphis, TN 38117 or by e-mail to lucy@ heartworks4u.com. You may also contact her for a free 20-minute consultation.)